Friday, January 24, 2014
Kink Meme, Day 5
I think the FreddyandEddy link is the best, because it has a lot of useful information (including a picture!), and it's funny. Like, it lets readers know about different materials used to make anal toys so that they're safer, and it talks about the "aftermath."
But all the sites have three made points in common: Go slow, have a lot of prep time, and a LOT OF LUBE. My first time, we broke all three rules. Which was bad. I shrieked, his flatmates heard, came running to the door to see what was wrong, and while he was dealing with them through the door I was in the corner of the room getting dressed. I left without saying a word. We broke up soon after that. I don't think it was because of that, but...it didn't help.
I wasn't turned off to the whole idea, obviously. But after that catastrophe, I did my research, so that when I was ready to try again, I would know what to do, even if my partner didn't. But he did. And it was good. :)